I am no stranger to Judges, my father is a barrister and his friends are barristers. The moment you walk in they start judging you and presenting evidence to support their claims. Of course they are just having fun with me but not everyone i have met is having fun with me. Some are actually serious, they are judging and condemning me. Why would you spend time judging me, condemning me and castigating me? Humans have this thing of seeing wrong in others and being king of the hill as they lay down the law. I have seen that most judges cannot handle being judged.Judges are insecure, incapable of seeing the wrong and imperfection in their lives, have god complexes and lack one thing for other people and that’s love!
Ever thought what happens when you judge someone. Judgement destroys ones love, ones vision, ones resolve and ones character. Unlike people like me who can shrug off judgment, most will be crushed by it. The judge with the log in his eye will never see that indeed the person they judge is just like them, an imperfect soul on the way to perfection. Despise not the making of a perfect man for in the end there is peace. I literally hate it when people judge other people because in the end we are no better or no worse than each other. I was judged everywhere i went because no one could understand me, church camps, meetings, class and walking home everyone made it clear they thought i was demon possessed or a snake and no one should associate with me. At first it affected me until i realised something:
“People who are threatened by you are your biggest critics because inside themselves they see an inadequacy they cannot address and lack courage to confront. They would rather spend time feeling good about inflating your inadequacy than confronting their own because in a sense they lack that which they admire in you. You are only a threat to an enemy if you yourself view yourself as one!” #Russell Mazonde